Endearments

in relationship, we often find word or words to describe our feelings. we do create names which we believe best fit to what we have to one another. when we talk about family relationship, we use to call our parents as, Papa,Pop,Erpat,Tatay,Itay,Daddy and etc. - for our father, and Mama,Nanay,Inay,Ermat,Mommy,Momsy for our mother, we use to call our siblings as Kuya,Ate,Bunso, or what ever you wish to call them. but would mind if i ask you, what is the reason behind those words? i guess, it wont be harmful for us.. let me share with you some of my favorite endearments, which i have for my friends and constituents... hahaha

ter- it started with sharmagne (my colleague in college), shes often time use the word " ter " without a basic reason "ter" comes from Sister. eventually, we gladly accepted it and started to create a circle of friends. a lot of stories had been embodied with the " ter " words. many use it and meaninglessly use it but for us, we belong to it, deal with a great respect and with sacredness. for we believe, we not just found a friends to mingle with but with a family to hold on with. i do considers them as my family. ter members: sharmagne,dhing,jkay,polay,mixel,mira,felix,jareth.

bordz- more than usual, " bordz" represents brotherhood or sisterhood. though, we came across genders yet united as one, as one family. one family to describe, we've live in one boarding house, we were united by the same fate and culture. as i am living alone in the city, i always find rest and comfort. i had been into many boarding houses, i had been mingled with different people. but i found myself living in a house which i always intend to be with. it was so easy for me to adjust and fit myself in my new environment. since, most of them are my classmates and friends. we stayed in one house for a simple reason, we want family away from our families. and, we succeeded! my bordz are: dhay jean, pibi, rai2, mye2, lyt2, mam cha, baby josh, toto jeff..
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bro- my brothers in blood(hehe). i cant fully remembered when, why and where its started. but somehow i have the idea of the reason behind it. it is only exclusive for four of us. boys will be boys(jeje). i love calling them bro and so they are to me, even tough sounds funny for me and awkward to hear but i love calling them with sincerity, maybe i miss my older brother and older cousins. and my bro' are: daryl, elven, macjoe

maninay- indeed for a special people. when i was in elementary days, i kept asking my parent why do i have a pair of god-parent?. they just ignored me and continue doing their choirs. but then, i was so envy to my siblings they have losts of god-parents, lots of gifts during holidays, lots of gifts during their birthday. and worst, i came to realization and conclusion that my parents didn't love me at all. as years goes by, i continue the saga of knowing the reason behind the unfavorable life that i have.. hehe, so my mother spontaneously begging off but i never retrieved. and to the last resort, she answered me and so sad to hear because, i was born prematured and they don't have much time to settle things for my christening, so sad but life goes on. anyway, my god-mother died because of cancer when i as in grade six so i have only my god-father which until this day i haven't seen across. but my story doesnt stop there, in Gods glory, i found a "Maninay" (god-mother), hehehe, shes my classmate in high school, my best buddy from since then until now, shes definitely the angel which savored goodness and good fate in my life. and her name is Rhea, my since then and until forever best buddy.. she is the answer to all my prayers,.. we did a lot of crazy things and we've learned together. she is always there for as i am to her..

i know.... you too have much stories to tell... and im just right here.. willing to listen till my eardrums broken..